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"FOR THE FULL TEN DAYS"


"For the Full Ten Days"

By ClaireB.Forst,RN,MSN, MS

Why this title, you may be thinking; is this an article about antibiotics? Well, not exactly, but it is an article about taking medications.

I wear many hats. I'm a wife, mother, daughter, friend, nurse, therapist, etc. Somewhere in all this I am a medical consumer because I too, have need of medical care. When I am the patient, the nurse/therapist hat disappears and I am as vulnerable as the next person. I ask for written instructions from the doctor because experience has taught me that the information and instructions that were so clear in the consultation room are often a blur in the car.

But there is one thing we all share, professional and layperson alike: none of us wants to take medications. Well, that might not be exactly right. It's not that we don't want the meds; we just don't want to acknowledge the illness that necessitates the meds. We aren't like kids, who put up a fuss every time we need to give them a medicine. We don't gag and throw-up, and we don't throw tantrums...or do we? As adults, seldom do we come right out and say no, we won't take it. We listen to the doctor; fill the prescription with the fullest intentions of taking it and feeling better (if not totally well). Somewhere, somehow, once the little bottle reaches our home a metamorphosis begins to take place in our minds. Starting with the enthusiasm that lasts one, two, or perhaps even three days, doubt begins to creep in as we begin to feel better and rationalize to ourselves.

"The ankle swelling has gone so far down and running to the bathroom is really such a bother; maybe it isn't really necessary to take the diuretics everyday?"

"The sore throat is all better and the fever is gone, too. Five days of the antibiotics must surely be enough."

"The new medication for my high blood pressure is really great. The headaches are gone and I feel better than ever. The readings must be normal now, so do I really need to keep taking it?"

"The last blood test showed that my glucose level was finally normal. If I follow the diet, as best as I can, why is taking the pills everyday so important? I can feel when the numbers start to go up again and I'll start taking them again when that happens. Besides, it's so difficult to remember to take them before eating."

Does any of these sound familiar? They should because in one form or another changing the plot a little bit, or sometimes not, will make it fit everyone at some time or another. The question is are we against the medications, or the illness, or ourselves for being in the position of needing the medical care that required the meds to start with?

Let me tell you a little story. I took my father, a very senior adult, to the doctor. My dad has a multitude of very serious medical problems that require a scorecard to keep track of all the medications he uses in a day. At the visit, the doctor, apologetically, told him that a new one would have to be added. My father thanked the doctor for the prescription saying that years ago, a person with all his medical problems would never have had the chance to live to his age because the medications weren't available. Is my dad always compliant about taking everything? No more than you or I am, but he realizes that the medications are there for his benefit and whether he likes taking them or not, they are keeping him alive.

Are we all like this? I think not, not even myself. The bottom line is that medications are not punishment, or a sign of our weakness to deal with the illness. What they are, in reality is a blessing for us; yes a blessing, For without them we would often be unable to go on with our daily lives the best way we can So the next time your doctor prescribes a new med, and tells you how to take it, please listen, for the life you save will most certainly be your own. Write it down if necessary.

Pharmacists are a wonderful source of medication information. Printouts are now routinely provided on new meds listing name of med, indications, possible adverse reactions, and precautions. If such information is not routinely provided, feel free to ask for it. Many questions on drug interactions can be answered at the "drug store" and it is much easier to reach a pharmacist than a doctor.

As usual, in all areas of medical care, the best consumers, for that is what we should be, are informed and educated patients.

To protect yourself I highly recommend you read and have available in your home for interested family members a booklet called "Survival Guide - A Guide To Patient Directed Health Management" by Jeanne Rhynsburger,R.N.,CCRN,MICN,ACLS: This is published by the M.G. Foundation national office. A copy can be obtained from our Chapter office if you do not have one.

The information contained in this publication may save your life and/or make it so much easier.

 
Forst,M.S.N. at 718-692-4631 or Ruth Sampson, R.N. at 732-408-0161. If medical information is needed, call your physician. Family members may also avail themselves of this service. For Chapter matters or requests for information, call the Chapter office at 800- Those with difficulties, questions or concerns related to living with MG may call Claire 437-4949 (NJ only) or 609-818-0020, or leave a message on the tape. All calls will be returned as soon as possible. Our fax number is 609-818-0030.

MEDICAL DISCLAIMER: Please note that the medical views expressed in these articles are those of the individual author and do not necessarily reflect any official position of the Garden State Chapter, or the Medical Advisory Board. If you have any questions, please contact your physician. He knows your personal condition best.

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Date this page was updated: 04/11/2008 18:24